
Taking Children Abroad: Key Family Law Considerations for Parents
Are you looking forward to a holiday and planning to take your child or children abroad?
If so, this article may be of interest to you—particularly if you are separated or divorced.
For many parents, taking a child abroad, even for a short holiday, can raise important legal issues. Misunderstandings or failure to obtain the proper consent can lead to serious consequences, including allegations of child abduction. This guide sets out the key points every parent should understand before travelling abroad with a child.
Do You Need Consent to Take a Child Abroad?
In most cases, yes.
Where more than one person has parental responsibility, you must obtain the consent of everyone with parental responsibility before taking a child out of the UK, even for a holiday.
Parental responsibility may include:
- Mothers (automatically)
- Fathers (if married to the mother at the time of birth, or named on the birth certificate, depending on timing)
- Anyone with parental responsibility through:
- A court order
- A parental responsibility agreement
- In some cases, the local authority
Exception: Child Arrangements Orders
If you have a Child Arrangements Order stating that the child “lives with” you, you may take the child abroad for up to 28 days without the other parent’s consent, unless the order says otherwise.
Even where consent is not legally required, it is still good practice to:
- Inform the other parent in advance
- Provide travel dates and destination details
- Share accommodation details
- Where appropriate, agree reasonable contact arrangements while the child is away
What Happens If Consent Is Not Obtained?
Taking a child abroad without the required consent may amount to:
- Child abduction under the Child Abduction Act 1984
- A breach of court orders, where an order is in place
This applies even if:
- You are the child’s primary carer
- The trip is temporary, such as a holiday
The consequences can be both civil and criminal and may also have a significant impact on future court proceedings.
What If the Other Parent Refuses Consent?
If consent is unreasonably refused or cannot be obtained, you must apply to the court for permission before travelling.
This is usually done by applying for a Specific Issue Order, asking the court to allow the trip.
When deciding the application, the court will consider:
- The purpose and duration of the trip
- The child’s welfare
- Any risk of the child not being returned
- How contact with the other parent will be maintained
Genuine holidays are rarely refused, provided there is no real risk of non-return.
Practical Steps Before Travelling

To avoid disputes or complications, consider the following steps:
1. Obtain Written Consent
A signed letter from the other parent confirming:
- Their agreement to the trip
- The travel dates
- The destination
2. Carry Supporting Documents
You may be asked to produce evidence while travelling. Useful documents include:
- The child’s birth certificate
- The consent letter
- A copy of any relevant court order
3. Share Full Travel Details
Provide the other parent with:
- Flight details
- Accommodation information
- Emergency contact details
4. Check Destination Requirements
Some countries have strict entry requirements for children travelling with one parent. It is essential to check and comply with any applicable rules for your destination.
When Should You Seek Legal Advice?
You should seek legal advice if:
- The other parent refuses consent
- There is a history of conflict or court proceedings
- You are concerned the other parent may not return the child
- You are planning a longer stay or permanent relocation
Early legal advice can prevent disputes and help ensure your plans proceed lawfully.
Conclusion
Taking a child abroad is usually straightforward where parents cooperate. However, the legal requirements are strict, and failing to follow them can have serious consequences. Obtaining consent, communicating clearly, and understanding your legal position are essential for a smooth and stress-free holiday.
If you are unsure, our Family team can provide clear advice and, where necessary, assist you in ensuring your holiday plans run smoothly and within the law. You can contact our team, here.
FCILEx – Family Team